Feeling the heat from the scorching summer weather? When the temperature rises, it’s natural to lose some enthusiasm for activities. But fear not, there are ways to enjoy sizzling sex and pleasurable masturbation even during a heatwave without feeling like a sticky, unsexy mess. In this article, I’ll share some tried and tested techniques to cool down your hot summer sex, ensuring you can still relish in intense intimacy regardless of the weather.
The secret behind summer sex
Ever wondered why the scorching sun seems to ignite your sensual desires, leaving you feeling hot in more ways than one? Well, there’s a scientific explanation behind the spike in our libido during sunny and warm weather.
According to psychologist Dr. Cliff Arnall, the summer sunshine prompts an extra release of serotonin and dopamine, two of the most invigorating and positive neurochemicals in our brains. For a healthy sex drive, these chemicals need to be present in sufficient amounts, along with some laughter and relaxation.
Moreover, sunlight plays a role in boosting the body’s production of vitamin D, leading to an increase in some people’s production of estrogen and testosterone, directly contributing to that high summer sunshine libido. So, when the temperature rises, don’t be surprised if your desires follow suit!
Staying Chill in the Heat of Passion
You’ve taken the necessary steps to set the stage for a cool and comfortable sexual encounter despite the soaring temperatures. But how can you maintain a low room and body temperature during the act itself to ensure maximum comfort and fully enjoy the shared sensuality? Let’s explore some creative ways to keep the heat at bay and focus on the pleasure of the moment.
Here are some innovative ways to beat the heat while enjoying intimate moments:
- Experiment with ice play, introducing a refreshing and thrilling element. But remember, don’t apply ice cubes directly from the freezer to sensitive areas to avoid any unpleasant ice burn. Instead, try putting an ice cube in your mouth and use your lips and tongue to tantalizingly tease your partner’s erogenous zones or incorporate it during oral sex.
- Consider moving your lovemaking to cooler rooms in the house, such as the kitchen or enjoy the refreshing sensation of cool water in the shower. Following some tips for bathroom sex will make your experience better.
- Feeling adventurous? Take your escapades outside, but exercise caution to ensure privacy and avoid any potential trouble. You might try setting up a pop-up tent in the garden or seeking comfort in your air-conditioned car if privacy is assured.
- For a different kind of intimacy, explore the idea of mutual masturbation. Embrace the allure of summer sex in a cooler and more relaxed manner by watching each other pleasure yourselves without actual physical contact.
If you’re not in the mood for sex or any close physical intimacy, there’s no need to force yourself. You can wait for cooler weather or a day when you have more energy to invest in the aforementioned preparations if your libido isn’t cooperating.
Remember, there are alternative ways to maintain intimacy and sensuality in your relationship besides engaging in sexual activity. Rediscover the excitement of early days through sexting – send enticing texts, and if you feel comfortable, share photos as well. To relieve your pent-up desires, consider pleasuring yourself with your favorite sex toy, and if you’re open to it, invite your partner to watch. However, I can’t guarantee that it will ease their urgent and throbbing desires!
Ways to Cool Down After Sex
After indulging in a satisfying and passionate sex session, it’s likely you’ll be feeling hot and sweaty. Here are some refreshing tips to cool down and rejuvenate after sex:
- Reach for those chilled wipes from the fridge for a quick and refreshing clean-up.
- Take a delightful cool shower, whether you prefer to do it alone or enjoy it together with your partner.
- If you’ve had the pleasure of experiencing cool summer sex outside the bedroom, now is the time to relish the relief of slipping into fresh, cool bed sheets.
- Ensure your bedroom fan is positioned to cover both of you during the night, providing a soothing and cool ambiance for a restful sleep. If your fan comes with a timer function, use it to avoid unnecessary energy consumption and worries. Enjoy a blissful slumber in cool comfort.
May you have a summer filled with wonderfully refreshing and cool sexual experiences!
