Before we get to talking about sex life and how to keep things spicy and sparkly, let’s just take a critical moment here to address a very vital aspect of sex.
Shockingly, despite the society becoming so progressive and the women finally dropping their closely guarded veils, sex life is still not being talked about enough. While the carefree influencers, daring podcasts and some rather enlightening web series have done more than their fair share to make this topic a frequent talking point, it is deserving of much more. Without a doubt, many of us who were unaware of bolder sex terms or even kink have now joined the party through our awareness-aroused curiosity.
However, there are some topics such as a woman’s pleasure being equally important or a woman’s sexual desire being equal to that of a man; these are things which still don’t make for a comfortable reality. And that’s what is, frankly, outrageous. Sex is such a basic human right, as much as food or water; who gets to decide if one gender is supposed to naturally have a higher drive for it. It’s a bodily thing and its high time we began normalising sex, be it kinky or vanilla, in equal measure for men and women.
And that’s why, let’s talk about spicing up sex life, not just for yourself but for your partner as well, regardless of gender.
- Foreplay is king– Foreplay is of utmost importance in case you thought otherwise. Sex without foreplay is like completing a part of your checklist. Spicy and sparkly start right there with a satisfying foreplay that takes its own sweet course. Engage all of your partner’s senses well and see the magic unfold.
- Feel good factor– Looking good, being well-groomed is as important for your partner’s sake as much as it is for your own happiness and confidence. Wear that sexy nighty or a hot honeymoon lingerie that makes you feel empowered. For men, groom yourself right, a well-trimmed beard never goes out of style as much as a good smell is hard to resist.
- Give it time– Yes, please don’t rush. This is not a task you need to get it over with. If you just rush things or follow the same ‘eat, sleep, repeat’ pattern every time, bid that spice goodbye. Make your partner feel special, explore each other and understand what makes them go wild and ignite that passion.
- Get experimental– And why not? When simply reading about those BDSM sex tales can get us feeling, imagine experimenting with it. Of course, consent and comfort are the key but who doesn’t like a bit of kink for that extra spice. Take out those toys or BDSM kit which are available at kamuklife.com, these kits are available on their website to make it right and set the mood.
- Climax is not the end– You heard that right, it doesn’t end there. While a sexy nighty or a good foreplay can be a game changer, do not undermine the after-sex cuddles. Hold tight and keep it warm. The bond will only account for a great next time or maybe, a second round. Who knows!
Now the next time before you say it’s not the same as old times or thinking of not getting that feel; reflect hard and delve into the above points. Don’t just take the final call yet or even worse, give up. While almost all couples, married or unmarried, are likely to experience the ‘dry spell’ at some point in their sex life, it’s really not much of a rocket science to revive back that lost spice.
